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Three Beautiful Waldorf Birthday Traditions

By Jennifer Updated: December 28, 2019. First published: March 21, 2012. This post may contain affiliate links. 10 Comments  

Birthday traditions are a rather important part of a child’s life. Look back at your childhood and reflect on the time around your birthday. How do you remember it?

I personally love the way birthdays are celebrated in the Waldorf school and home. They really are beautiful birthday traditions! They link children to their past while allowing them to briefly look ahead towards their future without getting too far from the present moment.

Waldorf inspired birthday traditions are very calming and peaceful. They do not take a lot of prep work and can be built on year after year.

Today I am sharing with you three birthday traditions that are found in the Waldorf home and school. The first is the Waldorf Birthday Poem – the poem read on the eve of the child’s birthday. The second is the Waldorf Birthday Ring. The third is the Rainbow Bridge Birthday Story. Enjoy!

A wooden Waldorf toy rainbow to illustrate birthday traditions

Waldorf Birthday Poem

The night before a child’s birthday, a special poem is recited as the child is tucked into bed. It is a sweet poem honoring the last night that the child will be that age.

When I have said my evening prayer,
And my clothes are folded on the chair,
And mother switches off the light,
I’ll still be ___ years old tonight.

But from the very break of day,
Before the children rise and play,
Before the darkness turns to gold,
Tomorrow, I’ll be ___ years old.

___ kisses when I wake,
___ candles on my cake.

I absolutely love that Waldorf Birthday poem! It is easy to remember and something so special to do to honor the child.

Waldorf Birthday Ring

Waldorf Birthday Ring

The Waldorf birthday ring is a tradition that I just adore! They create a beautiful family ritual that spirals back around each year as you focus on your birthday child. The wooden ring can be purchased or made easily and can be used for 12, 16, or 24 years.

The Waldorf Birthday Ring tradition originating in Germany has many variations. Some families place candles in the holes of the ring corresponding to the number of years the child is turning (so 3 candles for 3 years old) and then fill the remaining holes with wood and other decorations symbolizing the child’s interests or events of the year. As the child gets older, more candles are added and the wooden objects are moved into the center of the ring as a reminder of birthday’s past.

Other families fill the birthday ring with candles exclusively while others simply add a wooden object each year choosing something that holds particular meaning for the child. There is no right or wrong way to create your Waldorf birthday ring! I like to add an object each year to symbolize something that Tiny experienced and then light a single candle in the center of the ring.

As the family gathers around the table that the ring is placed on, they honor the child by sharing a memory from each year. For example, Tiny’s story went like this:

When you were a baby, you were so small and delicate like a wee little rosebud. I held you day and night and covered you with tender kisses. You grew so fast and soon you turned one year old. When you were a baby, you loved to play with your rainbow wooden stacker, trying to get all of the pieces onto the post (I point to the wooden stacker decoration). When you were one, you loved turtles and even had the honor of rescuing one from the street. (I point to the turtle decoration). When you were two, you developed a love of trains. (I point to the train decoration). And on it goes…

Rainbow Bridge Birthday Story

The Rainbow Bridge Birthday Story (also known as The Little Angel’s Birthday Story) has many, many versions and is something that you can easily customize to fit your child’s journey earth side. This is such a beautiful way to remember the birth of your son or daughter and to create a fabulous tale that your child will look forward to hearing each year on his or her birthday. Below are two examples of these stories. Both are filled with whimsy and dreaminess.

The Little Angel's Birthday Story

Rainbow Bridge Birthday Story – Version 1 (Short Version)

Once upon a time there was a little child named____________ who was still with the angles in heaven and he/she was very happy there. He looked at the beautiful colors and listened to the lovely music, and that was where he belonged. But one day the clouds parted in heaven and __________saw the beautiful green earth
below with all the people happily playing and working and he suddenly longed to go there and see what it was like. He saw all the rainbow colors of the earth, He saw butterflies visiting flowers and birds flying in the air.

They seemed to be beckoning him. He saw fish swimming in the sea and all the different plants that covered the earth. he saw children climbing trees running and jumping in the meadows and walking through sand and leaves. It was all so beautiful!

So he said to his angel, ‘Please, may I go down to earth now?” But his angel looked at him and said, “No, it is too soon. You must wait a little while yet”. So the child went and was happy and soon forgot about the earth.

Then one day again he saw a glimpse of the earth through the clouds again. He saw mother and fathers doing their work. He saw bakers and engineers and writers and farmers. He saw mothers and fathers loving their children. Then he saw a beautiful mother with love and longing in her heart for a child and he asked his angel
now, “May I go to her?”

The angel said, “You must go through the land of dreams first.” (** See below for options)

The next night the little child had a dream. He dreamed that he met and man and a
woman and they stretched out their arms to him and asked him to come be their child. The child told his angel the dream. The angel said, “It is now time for you to go.” So the child asked, “So may I go now?” “You shall see.” Said the angel.

That night the child went to sleep into dreamland and while ten moons waxed and waned he rocked in a little boat. And at the end of that time a beautiful rainbow bridge stretched from heaven to earth and on it came the child as a tiny baby and slid into his mother and father’s waiting arms. They looked in awe at this new life and said “We shall call him/her ____________ “

Example of How You Can Change the Story

**The next night the little child had a dream. In it he dreamed that he went to the mother and she held out her arms and said, “Please come and be my child.” The little boy went to the angel and told him the dream. The angel said, “It is now time for you to go. But we must first find your father.” The angel looked and looked.
Finally the angel came back and said to the little boy. I have found your father, only you must understand one thing. You will have two fathers. For the first I have found is able to give you your first life and unlock the rainbow bridge for you to come to earth. However, he is unable to give you the love and guidance you need in life. Your second father, Mario, will be waiting for you a few years later and he will give you your love and guidance in life.

So the child asked, “So may I go now?” “You shall see.” Said the angel.

That night the child went to sleep into dreamland and while ten moons waxed and waned he rocked in a little boat. And at the end of that time a beautiful rainbow bridge stretched from heaven to earth and on it came the child as a tiny baby and slid into his mother’s waiting arms.

Rainbow Bridge Birthday Story – Version 2 (Long Version)

Once upon a time in a land far, yet near, there lived an angel, who was very happy living in heaven, where all is pure positive energy. One day the angel looked out through the golden clouds, and there in the distance below, ‘she saw all the rainbow colors on the earth. She saw the butterflies visiting the flowers and the birds flying in the air. They were beckoning to her as if to say, “Come here where we are.” She saw the fish swimming in the river and the many different kinds of stones and plants that covered the earth. And she saw earthly children climbing trees, running and jumping in the meadows and walking through the crunchy leaves. It was all so beautiful! She saw earthly fathers and mothers doing their work. One was a farmer, another a builder; and still others were bakers, shoemakers and shopkeepers. And she saw mothers and fathers caring for their children.‘

She looked even more closely through the clouds, and saw a beautiful earthly garden, with flowers of every color, trees, and wild edible plants. There, in the garden, was a woman with a welcoming smile, and the angel loved her very much. The angel saw a man with a warm and loving heart full of goodness, and the angel loved him very much. She saw that the couple wanted to have a baby. She chose them to be her earthly parents, and she knew that her home would be with them.

This little angel then found her Guardian Angel, who would help guide her to earth. The Guardian Angel assured her that her wings would be safely kept until her return, and so, the little angel agreed to leave her wings behind. This Little Angel waited through three seasons, spring, summer, and fall, and when winter arrived, it was finally time! Guardian Angel said, “Now you are ready, and I will accompany you on your journey.” The Guardian Angel took Little Angel by the hand and they walked to the Twinkling Stars, who gifted Little Angel with wonder. Then, they walked to Radiant Sun who gifted Little Angel with love, and finally to Silvery Moon, who gave Little Angel the gift of kindness.

At last, the Guardian Angel and the Little Angel went to the threshold, where the beautiful Rainbow Bridge stretched from heaven to earth. Guardian Angel wrapped Little Angel in a soft, celestial blanket and cradled her as they slid together down the Rainbow Bridge. They crossed through each of the many colors of the beautiful rainbow bridge, one by one. As she soared down the colorful spectrum through the clouds and sky, she took human form inside her mother’s womb. Little Angel fell asleep to the beautiful sounds of lullabies and awakened as a tiny baby in the arms of her new mother and father, the same couple Little Angel had spotted before. There were the loving woman and the man with the kind heart who were in the dream. They looked in awe at this new life and said, “Our little baby! We shall call her ______.”

They joyously sang to her,
“We all came to welcome you, we all came to your birth
We all came to welcome you, to welcome you to Earth
And I was there to love you, I was there to love you,
I was there to love you and lend my body for
Your safe and gentle journey here
Through heaven’s open door.”

And so, four years ago today, _____ was born upon the earth. The Guardian Angel returned to Heaven and hung Little Angel’s wings on Silvery Moon to await her return one day.

This girl has, to help her along, her three gifts here in her life on earth…the wonder given her by the Stars, the love that was given to her by Father Sun, and the kindness she received from Daughter Moon. By tuning in to these three gifts, which live inside her, she can find answers and direction any time she may need. Ever hopeful, ever loving, and ever kind, this angel essence remains strong in the girl every day.

Looking for something more tangible? How about a Waldorf Birthday Book?

The Waldorf Birthday Book book cover
Through The Rainbow A Waldorf Birthday Story for Children Book Cover

What traditions, Waldorf inspired or not, do  you celebrate with your child on his or her birthday? If you do not have any, what are you hoping to create?

Three beautiful, Waldorf inspired birthday traditions illustrated by a Waldorf Birthday Ring.
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Jennifer, author of Hybrid Rasta Mama, is a former government recruiter turned work-at-home mama to a daughter brought earthside in early 2009. She is passionate about and writes about holistic health and wellness, natural/green living, toxic mold awareness, and the benefits of coconut oil. She frequently shares allergy friendly recipes on her site as well as DIY herbal remedies, DIY natural body care, and natural cleaning recipes.

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Comments

  1. miss fish says

    March 21, 2012 at 4:06 PM

    My sweet babe turns one on Saturday. This brought tears to my eyes!

    Reply
  2. Becky Goddard-Hill says

    March 21, 2012 at 7:42 PM

    I adore this I have a party blog http://www.kidsloveparties.com would you like to guest post this and share the love?

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  3. kathy says

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  4. Les @ LPN Salary says

    March 23, 2012 at 8:52 PM

    We didn’t plan on any tradition but noticed that we’ve been celebrating our LO’s birthdays at the zoo. Nothing too poetic like the ones you have written here. Nevertheless, the important thing is you get to celebrate together, as a family. Maybe we’ll work on new traditions too! Not just birthdays. Thanks for this!

    Reply
  5. Geburtstafel Holz says

    April 21, 2013 at 1:45 AM

    Preparing for motherhood can be an awe-inspiring experience and gives a distinct pleasure to the mother. The ceremony is intended to gather friends and families to offer blessings and best wishes to the parents. Family and friends come to give blessings and to offer different types gifts and suggestions.

    Reply
  6. tegan says

    November 5, 2013 at 9:32 PM

    beautiful, inspiring and looking forward to this magical way of celebrating her given day. this resonates with our feelings , ethics and emotions. blessings to you

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  7. Briar says

    July 25, 2016 at 6:06 PM

    Thank you so much for this post. My sister shared it with me today as I am preparing for my little one’s first birthday. I am certainly going to incorporate some (or all) of your ideas!

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  8. Hannah says

    May 14, 2018 at 2:45 PM

    I recall reading that verse in a waldorf book 35 years ago,
    the birthday verse
    do you know the name of the book you found it in?
    would love to know it
    all the best to you

    Reply
    • Jennifer says

      May 17, 2018 at 12:09 PM

      I am pretty sure it is from this book: https://amzn.to/2Iq7743

      I don’t have it anymore so I can’t confirm but I can’t imagine it came from something else.

      Reply
  9. The Steiner Connection says

    April 8, 2022 at 9:19 PM

    We use the Waldorf candle ring, but I’m looking forward to using more of these verses and stories as my son grows older!

    Reply

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